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Divorce Education Classes in New Jersey

In New Jersey, the court-required divorce-education requirement is the Parents' Education Program (N.J.S.A. 2A:34-12.1 to 2A:34-12.8 (the Parents' Education Act); administered under NJ Courts Directive #11-19), overseen by the New Jersey Judiciary — each county's Superior Court Family Division runs the sessions under Directive #11-19, with staff designated by the county's Assignment Judge. Here's who has to take it, whether you can do it online, how long it takes, what it costs, and how to find a course the Superior Court Family Division in the county where your case is filed will accept.

Parent organizing a shared calendar and class paperwork at home
Divorce-education rules are local. Confirm the approved course and deadline before enrolling.

Quick answer: divorce education in New Jersey

In-person required. New Jersey is the opposite of a shop-for-a-provider state: there are no commercial providers to compare, because the Parents' Education Program is run by the court system itself. Under the Parents' Education Act (N.J.S.A. 2A:34-12.1 to -12.8) and Directive #11-19, you pay a flat $25 registration fee with your first pleading and the county Family Division schedules you into its own session — each party attends separately, and sessions must be offered at least twice a month. A paid 'New Jersey parent education class' from a national website cannot satisfy the requirement; the court never asks you to find a class at all. the Superior Court Family Division in the county where your case is filed decides what counts — confirm the course and format before you enroll or pay.

Parents participating in a respectful divorce education seminar
Most programs focus on communication, co-parenting, and protecting children from conflict.

At a glance

Is divorce education required?Yes — required statewide for divorcing parents with minor children
Who takes it & whenAll parties to a New Jersey action for divorce, nullity, or separate maintenance — plus dissolutions of civil unions and domestic partnerships — who have minor children in common must attend the court-run Parents' Education Program before the judgment is entered, unless an exemption applies.
Course nameParents' Education Program
Legal basisN.J.S.A. 2A:34-12.1 to 2A:34-12.8 (the Parents' Education Act); administered under NJ Courts Directive #11-19
DeadlineThere is no self-enrollment deadline because you cannot self-enroll: after your first pleading is filed with the $25 fee, the county Family Division sends you a Scheduling Notice with your session date. Both parties must complete the program before the entry of the judgment of divorce or dissolution, and a party who fails to appear twice is referred to the judge.
Typical lengthOne court-run session per party (spouses attend separate sessions). Neither the Parents’ Education Act nor Directive #11-19 fixes a statewide hour count — your Scheduling Notice gives the date, time, and location.
Typical costA flat $25 registration fee per party, paid to the court with your filing fee — there is no separate tuition, because the court itself runs the program. The fee (and the program) does not apply if a domestic-violence restraining order exists between the parties.
In person or online?In-person required

New Jersey-specific rules to know

Find an approved divorce-education class in New Jersey

Start with the official state or court list — that's the one the Superior Court Family Division in the county where your case is filed is most likely to accept — then confirm the specific course with your court or clerk:

Prefer to look on a map? Search Google Maps for divorce-education classes in New Jersey — then check any provider against the official guidance above and your court's order before enrolling.

Divorce education vs. a parenting class: "divorce education" focuses on the divorce process itself and how it affects children, while a court-ordered parenting class is the broader custody / co-parenting requirement. In many states the two overlap or are the same course. Read our overview of how court-ordered parenting classes work.

Source & accuracy: compiled from the New Jersey Judiciary — each county's Superior Court Family Division runs the sessions under Directive #11-19, with staff designated by the county's Assignment Judge and official New Jersey court sources. Requirements change and can vary by county and case — always confirm the course, format, hours, cost, and deadline with your court before enrolling. Sources: njcourts.gov/sites/default/files/notices/2019/06/n190618b.pdf, law.justia.com/codes/new-jersey/title-2a/section-2a-34-12-3, njcourts.gov/self-help/divorce.

Frequently asked questions

Is a parent education class required for divorce in New Jersey?

Yes, statewide. The Parents' Education Act (N.J.S.A. 2A:34-12.1 to -12.8) requires every party to a divorce, nullity, or separate maintenance action with minor children — including civil-union and domestic-partnership dissolutions — to attend the court-run Parents' Education Program before the judgment is entered, unless an exemption applies (most commonly a domestic-violence restraining order between the parties or a first pleading that incorporates a property settlement agreement).

How much does the New Jersey Parents’ Education Program cost?

A flat $25 per party, paid to the court as a registration fee along with your filing fee. That is the entire cost — the court runs the session itself, so there is no separate class tuition. If a domestic-violence restraining order exists between the parties, neither the fee nor attendance is required.

How do I sign up for the NJ Parents’ Education Program?

You don't — the court signs you up. After your complaint, counterclaim, or answer is filed with the $25 fee, the county Family Division sends you a Scheduling Notice with the date, time, and location of your session. Each spouse is scheduled into a separate session. If you believe you qualify for an exemption after being scheduled, contact the Family Division to be removed from the list.

Are online divorce parenting classes from national websites accepted in New Jersey?

No. New Jersey's program is run by the court system itself under Directive #11-19 — the county Family Division schedules you into its own session after you file, and there is no list of outside providers, online or otherwise. A commercial 'New Jersey parents education class' certificate from a national website does not satisfy N.J.S.A. 2A:34-12.1 to -12.8, and you would be paying for something the $25 court fee already covers. If you cannot attend your scheduled session, contact your county Family Division rather than buying a class.

What happens if I skip the Parents’ Education Program?

The court must consider a party’s failure to attend as a factor when making custody and parenting-time determinations, and the program must be completed before the judgment of divorce is entered. If a party fails to appear at two scheduled sessions, Family Division staff notify the judge, who decides what happens next in the case.

Written by Michelle Brown, Editor · Last reviewed · Checked against public court, DMV, and government sources. See our editorial standards.